I live and love by the adage: I am defined by what I
REGULARLY do, not by what I occasionally do.
To that end, it was a huge discovery when I realized I REGULARLY defaulted
to too much breakfast cereal. Every morning I would finish my cereal with a
bloated feeling and swollen tummy.
Have
you ever experienced this with any of your meals?
I began asking myself what the right amount
of cereal might be.
I realized my
default was based on a childhood memory of watching my two teenage brothers empty
an entire box of Cap’n Crunch into a large mixing bowl, pour on a full jug of
milk and eat it with a serving spoon.
Compared to that I was eating a modest portion—but it was STILL too
much.
The truth was revealed to me when
I undertook a little experiment I like to call: The Rule of Halves.
Pretty simply, the Rule of Halves involves two days of taking
half of what you normally take and adding more as needed. The purpose is NOT to cut calories, but
rather to reveal where you anticipate needing more than you actually do. Don’t hesitate to add more food if half a
portion is insufficient. During my
experience I immediately learned I needed HALF of the portion of cereal I was
usually eating. In fact, I felt
completely full with half my regular portion.
It allowed me to default to an amount that better suits my body and
allows me to feel balanced (instead of bloated).
Were there other areas where I regularly defaulted to too
much? You bet. I learned the pasta portion at the Olive Garden
is too much but the pasta portion in a frozen entrée is too little. I realized two pieces of toast with breakfast
is twice as much as I needed. Just
because there are two bread slots in my toaster should it dictate how much
toast I require? That my toaster was
dictating my food choice was looney—but there you have it. In fact, is there anything on earth besides
my body that can tell me how much food I need?
No calorie chart, FDA recommendation, nutritional panel, book,
restaurant portion, diet, or other EXTERNAL cue can tell me what I need today. Only my body can do that. I trust it.
I lost 110-pounds, and I live free of weight issues because my body will always tell me
what I need to be in perfect balance.
Sure, we can learn to leave on our plates any amount we don’t need, but I
tended to clean my plate because, like Mount Everest, it was there. Are you pickin' up what I'm layin' down?
Try the rule of halves for two days. Keep a journal of your discoveries and note
your predictions of portions, both correct, and incorrect. Please shoot me your responses with your
discoveries. I look forward to hearing
from you.